Gotchu. Well, I used the harsh takeaway today and

Girl and I matched on tinder a week and a half ago before July 4, tried getting her out immediately but for some reason that didn’t work. Distracted me with an unprompted nude that night lol. Have been trying to get her out after sexting but to no avail, even with another unprompted nude sent. Then on Fri I tried to actually set plans in motion but no response. Frustrating to say the least. Stuck on whether to use “don’t be shy” or “look if you’re not into this lmk and i can stop trying” as a takeaway here. Any thoughts?

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Ell Bee

Gotchu. Well, I used the harsh takeaway today and she responded by unmatching me on tinder 😒 wanted to think there was at least a chance momentum could be revived. shame really.

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Bob Rao

Yeah the chances are pretty slim. I don't think I've ever actually banged a girl after using a harsh takeaway like that, get them to respond yes, but never banged off it. You probably have more chance if you leave an interaction and come back to it in a few months tbh

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Ell Bee

Gee, that would’ve been really nice to know yesterday before i sent that 😑 now maybe it’s blown up for good. lol

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Stuck on which takeaway to use (screens attached)