How do you set up a date with someone who goes to school 2 hours away?
I matched with a girl on tinder. I live in Townsville currently and she’s from the same area. But she goes to school at Monsters University which is 2 hours away. What’s cool is I’m actually an alumni at MU. We clicked on our similarities and I number closed and said let’s exchange numbers and set up a time to grab a drink at a romantic place. My expectation was to set something up when she’s in town visiting her parents or maybe I’ll try to find an excuse to visit my old college town and meet her at a bar somewhere, BUT.... She texted me and said hey let’s go snowboarding sometime (I have a snowboarding pic in my profile). There’s one snowboarding place by me and one by her. But there’s none in between. So one of us would have to drive 2 hours to go snowboarding for a first date. How would you go about setting this up? To make things harder, I live with my mom cause I’m taking care of her while she goes through chemo. So if she comes my way now we’d have to get a hotel if we’re vibing. I’m not sure I want to commit to a 2 hour drive to go on a first date snowboarding. I like the sport but not that much. Especially since I don’t even know if I’ll get laid out if it. What do you guys think I should say?